"For Life"

Largely couples in their mid-forties notice their enjoyment of their sexual relationship declines gradually for several years.  This is mainly because each feels more and more exhausted and stressed at the end of the workday.  Then on those rare opportunities when they do make love they both have a tendency to be lost in thought with their “performance,” usually limiting themselves to making sure that their partner had an orgasm.  This was the situation for Charlotte and Mike.

They both came to a joint agreement that their relationship was definitely due for a major change and decided to participate in a workshop on tantra.  Their entire view of their relationship was transformed in only a matter of a week.  ”We feel that we are both much closer intimately and emotionally”, maintains Charlotte.  “We both have more energy and make love much longer,” says Mike smiling, “and frequently!”

You probably think that this sounds too good to be true, but in reality it is becoming a very common practice among couples.  More and more are discovering the simple wisdom from oriental tantric sexual practices.  Actually, there are only three very basic teachings that couples can start with.

First is for men to become skilled at not ejaculating every time, which results in prolonged lovemaking and profound climaxes.  In addition, they experience a tremendous change in their energy during the day.

Second is for both partners to learn to breathe in unison when making love combining their sexual energy to become as one being.

Third is for the couple to view lovemaking as a spiritual meditative understanding, bonding on every level with no reservations, no judging, no ego and no guilt.

Many people have heard about Tantra, but, unfortunately, very few have a full understanding of what Tantra is.

Sanskrit for Instrument of Expansion, Tantra is an ancient and sacred practice that teachs you how to nourish your sexual energy in ways which bring greater wholeness into your life, connecting sex with heart and spirit and not just for sex or pleasure as an end in itself.

What I want to impress upon you is that everyone has sexual energy within them that is as natural as breathing. Once you can properly tap into it, you can begin to use it to your advantage.  And Tantra is exactly what you need to get you there.

How long are you planning to wait before you decide to improve your life “incredibly and irretrievably?”

Picture courtesy of Mary R. Vogt.